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OMAHA, (Neb.) Nebraska Families Collaborative has been notified by the Council on Accreditation (COA) that is has been reaccredited. This recognition demonstrates Nebraska Families Collaborative “continues to successfully implement high performance standards and delivers high-quality services” as a provider of child welfare services in Douglas and Sarpy Counties.

The Council on Accreditation is an international, independent, nonprofit, human service accrediting organization founded in 1977 by the Child Welfare League of America and Family Service America (now the Alliance for Strong Families and Communities). The COA accredits the full continuum of child welfare, behavioral health and community-based social services.

“Receiving a national accreditation by the COA is a reflection of our ongoing commitment to serving children and families with the highest quality of care,” says David Newell, the President and CEO of Nebraska Families Collaborative. “We would like to thank our employees and stakeholders who’ve supported us in successfully completing the reaccreditation process.”

The accreditation will be finalized within the next four weeks. For more information on the Council on Accreditation, visit http://coanet.org/home/.

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Dave-4298OMAHA, (Neb.) Nebraska Families Collaborative president and CEO, David Newell, CSW, ACSW, has been elected chairperson of the Nebraska Children’s Commission. Newell was reappointed to the board last July by Governor Pete Ricketts.

The Nebraska Children’s Commission was created by the Nebraska State Legislature in 2012 to devise a strategic plan for child welfare and juvenile justice systems and to work collaboratively with the three branches of government and community stakeholders to enhance programs to improve the safety and well-being of Nebraska’s children.

One of the original members appointed to the Commission, Newell said the Commission is focused on working to continue to improve Nebraska’s child welfare and juvenile justice systems and improve the well-being of children and families across the State. Newell plans to visit all commission members across the State in their home communities to listen to their hopes and concerns regarding the commission’s current strategic plan.

“I am humbled to be elected as the Commission’s next chair,” said Newell. “I look forward to partnering with all Nebraskans in furthering the Commission’s important mission of strengthening families and ensuring that Nebraska is a great place for all of our kids to grow-up.”

Newell’s term runs until June 20, 2019.

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Join two of the leading experts on the topic of working together to achieve transformative outcomes.

OMAHA, (Neb.) Susan Dreyfus, president and CEO of the Alliance for Strong Families and Communities, and Tracy Wareing Evans, president and CEO of the American Public Human Services Association will explore the power of generative partnerships and the detailed evidence of what they can achieve at a presentation to be held at Boys Town. The event is open to the public.

WHO: Susan Dreyfus, president and CEO of the Alliance for Strong Families and Communities
Tracy Wareing Evans, president and CEO of the American Public Human Services Association

WHAT: Presentation on the Power of Generative Partnerships

WHEN: July 25, 2017
9:30 – 11:30 a.m.

WHERE: Boys Town
National Headquarters Auditorium
14100 Crawford Street
Boys Town, NE 68010

WHY: Generative partnerships are something greater than collaborative efforts around single initiatives; their aim is something bigger and their potential impact can be transformative. Dreyfus and Wareing Evans will speak about the process of putting together a dynamic partnership in order to achieve true generative results.

RSVP: Registration is free, but space is limited. RSVP to Tracy Greymont at tgreymont@alliance1.org or (414) 359-6524, no later than Friday, July 14, to attend.

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Mutual of Omaha Supports Program During Take Your Child to Work Day.

OMAHA, (Neb.) Now in its fourth year, the Duffels 4 Dignity Drive, sponsored by Nebraska Families Collaborative, is raising money and awareness to offer foster kids something more than a trash bag to carry their personal belongings in during their transition into foster care. The program, which began in 2013, provides children with a new duffel bag filled with essential items such as shampoo, bar soap, a toothbrush and much more.

Mutual of Omaha took advantage of its recent “Take Your Child To Work Day” in June to teach approximately 100 12-year-old children of Mutual of Omaha employees the importance of giving. Mutual identified NFC’s Duffels 4 Dignity program as its volunteer project and the children spent part of their day at work decorating bags that will then be donated to the program.

The 2017 Duffels 4 Dignity Drive runs throughout the month of July. A donation of $25 will help ensure a child receives essential items in his or her duffel bag. To learn more or to donate, visit nebraskafc.org/duffels-for-dignity.

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Eve Bleyhl of The Nebraska Family Support Network joins NFC’s Board of Directors

Eve-Headshot-WebOMAHA, (Neb.) Nebraska Families Collaborative (NFC), contracted by the State of Nebraska to provide case management and service coordination for children and families involved in the child welfare system in Douglas and Sarpy counties, is pleased to announce the appointment of Eve Bleyhl, Executive Director for The Nebraska Family Support Network (NFSN) to its board of directors.

Bleyhl replaces Dan Jackson as the Executive Director of NFSN and will serve on the NFC Board of Directors.

Bleyhl has a M.S. in Urban Studies from UNO with a graduate concentration in Counseling. She has worked in the helping field for over 25 years in a variety of roles ranging from Program Coordinator for Out of School Youth at Metropolitan College to Certified Vocational Counselor with Conway Rehab to Executive Director of NAMI Nebraska and prior Executive Director of the Nebraska Family Support Network (NFSN). Bleyhl returned to work for NFSN in January 2016 as Program Manager and loves being back working with the peer support model she deeply believes in.

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Nebraska Families Collaborative is hosting our first annual "Freshen Up for School" Aftercare Event! This back-to-school event is for our 350+ active Aftercare children to prep for the new school year by providing them with personal hygiene products, new socks and underwear, and haircuts. You can help us raise money for this great event! Here's how:

Attend any public Paint Nite Event! It's simple! First, find an event you want to attend near you on Paint Nite. Then, use our fundraiser code, VF-2017BTS, at checkout and Paint Nite will donate $15 for every ticket bought with our code between now and July 15th.

Unable to attend a Paint Nite event? You can still help support our cause by making a donation to the "Freshen Up for School" Aftercare Event. Click here to make a donation today! 

All money raised will be used for this year's "Freshen Up for School" Aftercare Event. Thank you for your support!

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Black-Teen-Boy-Close-Up-2015Johnathan came into the foster care system when he was very young. He was adopted by his grandmother and then reentered the system when he was 12 years old. He had been placed in out-of-home care for five years in a variety of settings including hospitals, group homes, foster homes, and out-of-state placements.

Johnathan always talked about what it would be like to live in a family home instead of a group home. He dreamt of what it’d be like to learn how to cook dinner or go fishing. However, Johnathan had personal struggles that prevented him from many of these activities.

Nebraska Families Collaborative and its network of providers were able to come together to help Johnathan and his mother mend their relationship. Over time, they began to participate in family therapy where Johnathan was able to focus on his personal challenges and further restore his relationship with his mother. Through these sessions, Johnathan and his mother were able to overcome many obstacles that once kept them apart.

Based on the progress made, Johnathan’s team began talking about reunification. Yet, there were still barriers preventing Johnathan from returning home to his mother.

The family’s team of professionals collaborated and found solutions to overcome all of these barriers. Through the support of his team, Johnathan was also able to advocate for himself and used the therapeutic skills put in place to make the decision that he wanted to return home to his mother.

Through time, Johnathan and his mother were able to spend long visits together and he returned home permanently in April 2017. Johnathan is very happy now and continues to share his progress with his professional supports.

At this time, Johnathan has settled in to his new home. He recently graduated from high school, has started a summer job, and loves being outdoors.

Johnathan has begun to make long lasting relationships within his new community. In a few months, Johnathan’s family will no longer be involved in the juvenile court system, but many of the relationships and supports formed will continue.

Johnathan and his mother will also continue to work on their relationship, but with the support of his extended family, community, and case professionals, he has everything he needs to be successful.

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Douglas and Sarpy Counties account for a huge portion of the total child welfare cases in Nebraska — just under half. These complex cases — more than 5,000 annually in the two counties — involve vulnerable children facing serious conditions at home.

In many instances, children are removed from home for reasons including neglect, parental drug use or physical abuse.

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ogprofileOmaha Gives! is a year-round online giving platform organized by the Omaha Community Foundation to grow philanthropy in Douglas, Sarpy, and Pottawattamie counties. Each year, there is a 24-hour online giving event in May to celebrate nonprofits. This year's giving day will take place on Wednesday, May 24, 2017. The goal is to inspire the community to come together for 24-hours to give as much as possible to support the work of nonprofits in the metro area. 

On May 24, we’ll give you a dozen reasons to donate to NFC with our #12ReasonsToGive campaign, highlighting stories of real Nebraska children & families we’re helping because of your support. Schedule your donation today, and make sure to watch our social media on May 24 to learn how your gift will make a real impact for children and families in Nebraska.

The minimum donation is $10 and there is no maximum. Last year, the community raised nearly $9 million for local nonprofits!

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DaveReedOMAHA, (Neb.) Nebraska Families Collaborative (NFC), contracted by the State of Nebraska to provide case management and service coordination for children and families involved in the child welfare system in Douglas and Sarpy counties, is pleased to announce the appointment of David Reed, Executive Director for Nebraska to its board of directors.

Reed replaces Lisa Batenhorst, vice president for Youth Care Site Operations as one of the NFC board’s Boys Town representative.

Reed holds a master of social work in counseling from the University of Kansas and has been with Boys Town for 22 years in a variety of roles. In his current position he oversees In-Home Family Services, Foster Family Services, Common Sense Parenting, Central Nebraska and East Omaha Behavioral Health Clinics, the Grand Island Intervention and Assessment program, the Duncan Day School alternative education program, the South Omaha Community Impact Initiative, and the Nebraska Family Helpline. In 2016 the Nebraska site impacted more than 9500 children statewide.

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Midland Voices, Omaha World-HeraldKathy
April 18, 2017

The writer is a longtime children’s advocate, former foster parent and founder of Voices for Children in Nebraska. She serves on the board of the Nebraska Families Collaborative.

In March, the Nebraska Children’s Commission announced the release of the Nebraska Child Welfare Blueprint Report, authored by ChildFocus, a national consulting group with expertise in child welfare.

The report provided a 15-year child welfare historical timeline of progress and setbacks, as well as recommendations about what Nebraska could do to strengthen its system of care, based on interviews with child welfare stakeholders.

As a lifelong advocate for children and families, I was heartened by the positive developments the report highlighted, especially the collaborative efforts of the Nebraska Legislature, the judicial branch, the executive branch and the private/community sector to implement a series of reforms. This is an example of “Nebraska nice,” where stakeholders come together with the purpose of improving outcomes for children and families and allowing time for new initiatives to produce positive results.

The Blueprint Report noted that while not all initiatives were successful at first, they often resulted in positive changes later as a result of stakeholder engagement and collaboration.

For example, when Nebraska passed the Safe Haven bill in 2007, the new law unintentionally created a crisis as struggling parents began abandoning their kids to the child welfare system.

While it took time to address this crisis, many positive changes emerged, most notably the public recognition that Nebraska needed to do a better job of supporting its families.

Much work remains, but some positive outcomes included the creation of the Nebraska Family Helpline and Right Turn as part of an overall plan to better assist and support families.

In 2009, Nebraska’s Department of Health and Human Services launched an initiative to move care coordination and case management services to private “lead agencies.” While I have long supported the concept of public-private partnerships, I did not support this initiative. It was launched without adequate planning, funding, time or stakeholder support to successfully result in such a large statewide system change.

I feared there would be many challenges for kids and families due to the systemic crisis I thought would occur. Unfortunately, many of those fears came true.

However, those challenges prompted stakeholders to work together to address the needs that came to light, in much the same way as what happened as a result of the Safe Haven law.

All of Nebraska’s stakeholders, particularly in Douglas and Sarpy Counties, came together to learn from past mistakes. They began building a better and more dependable child welfare system for kids and families, with a greater focus on achieving long-term family stability.

As a result, we saw the state’s public-private hybrid child welfare system achieve all six of the federal performance measures in 2016; a significant improvement in foster parent reimbursement rates; and adequate funding levels for child welfare services for the first time in the state’s history.

In addition, the Nebraska Children’s Commission and the Child Welfare Office of the Inspector General were created to increase stakeholder collaboration, planning and accountability in the child welfare system.

Nebraska’s child welfare system is still far from perfect, and many challenges remain that will require careful planning, adequate public funding and effective action. But the Blueprint Report gives us reason to be optimistic, and I am encouraged for the future of our families.

As Nebraska’s many child and family care organizations and agencies continue to work together for the good of all kids, there is nothing to prevent our state from being the best place to grow up for all kids.

Nebrask Child Welfare Blueprint Report - March 2017

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Pinwheel-Plant-2017April marks National Child Abuse Prevention Month. More than five children die every day as a result of child abuse, many under the age of four. It's important for communities to work together to raise awareness and play a role in helping prevent child abuse. Visit the Boys Town website to learn some of the indicators of abuse. 

One way to bring awareness is Pinwheels for Prevention, Prevent Child Abuse. Nebraska Families Collaborative participated again this year in planting blue and silver pinwheels outside of our office building in honor of National Child Abuse Prevention Month this April. You'll notice blue and silver pinwheels around many communities this month recognizing this national awareness effort. Learn more about Pinwheels for Prevention by visiting the Prevent Child Abuse America webpage.

Working together, we can help children locally and all across our country. 

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SkyeYou don’t have to be an angel to want to adopt a child. You don’t have to be exceedingly special or exceptionally generous. As Lillias Freeman-Hogan puts it, “You just need to be a parent, someone who is willing to be there for the kids. To be steady, secure and have love to give.”

That’s who Terry and Lillias Freeman-Hogan are: steady, secure, loving people who wanted to open their home to teenagers and surround them with a warm, safe environment. They’d successfully raised 5 other children, 4 of their own and one that came into their permanent care. After their children had grown and flew the nest, Terry and Lillias felt that they weren’t done with this parenting thing. Not even close.

They worked with Nebraska Families Collaborative to make their desire to adopt a reality. They knew they wanted teenagers. They knew they wanted to adopt and add permanency. And they knew they could provide the type of setting to welcome a child who’d long given up on the idea of ever being adopted.

Three years ago, Skye Alonzo, a then 14-year-old, was placed with Terry and Lillias. She came a year and a half after they’d adopted another teenage girl. Their home felt complete.

Terry and Lillias’ experience was positive in every sense. “Nebraska Families Collaborative has good people who work hard and care deeply. Skye’s caseworker did everything she could to improve the lives of these kids. She was in it for the long haul,” said Terry.

As for being adoptive parents, they couldn’t imagine being anything else, even with its ups and downs. Even with its new set of parenting rules and compromises.

The love that they show and the level of commitment they’re willing to give to provide for children is astonishing. They are true angels, whether they think so or not.

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Advanced Education

Working with children and families in the child welfare system requires a highly competent and skilled workforce. According to the National Association of Social Workers (NASW), a qualified and stable child welfare workforce is the foundation of child welfare service delivery. Nebraska Families Collaborative agrees, so we focus on hiring professionals who have college degrees in social work or similar studies to serve as our front line staff. We call them Family Permanency Specialists.

Each day, our Family Permanency Specialists (a.k.a. case managers) face critical decisions about the lives of vulnerable children and youths while working in stressful environments. Their day-to-day work with children and families spans a multitude of tasks, from conducting in-home visits to documenting case notes to giving testimony in court. Most importantly, they need to see the big picture with each family--identifying their strengths, building a strong relationship, advocating for the child(ren)'s best interest, and helping connect them to community supports and services that will help them become a stronger, healthier family. At times our Family Permanency Specialist have to tackle really difficult situations, like when a parent's rights are terminated. During those times especially, our staff have to adeptly manage what is often a highly emotional situation.

Like many other organizations who rely on skilled social workers, Nebraska Families Collaborative is finding that the number of professionals with social work degrees and backgrounds has diminished over the years. This is making it difficult to recruit new employees for this important work in child welfare. Nebraska is not alone. According to supply and demand projections, the nation will experience a total shortfall of over 195,000 social workers by the year 2030 (Lin, Lin & Zhang, 2016) if nothing is done to address this workforce shortage problem.

Recognizing the dire situation public and private programs face with a shortfall of qualified and educated social workers, the National Association of Social Workers (NASW) has advocated for a number of policy and regulatory changes, including supporting the use of Title IV-E for BSW/MSW education in the child welfare workforce that allows states to directly charge the costs of education to the Title IV-E program, as well as promoting incentives for BSW and MSW students to pursue child welfare work through student stipends and loan forgiveness programs. 

Nebraska Families Collaborative is also taking action to address this workforce shortage. For the past year, we have been developing a Master's in Social Work Child Welfare Cohort Program in partnership with the University of Nebraska at Omaha's Grace Abbott School of Social Work, Project Harmony and the Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services. Together, we have created an educational opportunity for 20 employees from NFC and these partner agencies to obtain their advanced social work degrees.

“This collaboration will make a major contribution to the professionalization of Nebraska’s child welfare workforce. Our employees are thrilled to have this new professional development opportunity.”

--David Newell, president and CEO of Nebraska Families Collaborative

The 20 employees, five of whom are from NFC, will spend the next three years earning a graduate degree by taking courses online and attending in-person classes every other weekend in Omaha or at the Grace Abbott School of Social Work's University of Nebraska at Kearney (UNK) location.

Funded by a combination of federal and private dollars, the cohort program will include an evaluation by the University of Nebraska at Omaha. For more information about the MSW Child Welfare Cohort Program, contact Donna Rozell, NFC's Chief Operating Officer at 402.492.2500.

 

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At our Community Partners Meeting on August 17, our very own Sarah Hayek presented on school success for foster youth at each of the major school districts in our area, particularly about the impact of school placement changes on the academic success and graduation rate of children in foster care. This is such an important topic, we wanted to share it with everyone who couldn't make it to hear her speak on the issue in person. Read through a summary of her presentation below!

Key Notes: 

Bellevue Public Schools
Nebraska Families Collaborative was working with a youth about to turn 19 years old and who was on an IEP (individual education plan), allowing her to attend school until she is 21 years old. This youth wanted to obtain her high school diploma vs. getting a GED. We worked with the Bellevue Director of Student Services, Kevin Mills, to get her enrolled and started at Bellevue Public Schools so she wouldn't have to change schools after her 19th birthday.

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Millard Public Schools
Nebraska Families Collaborative was trying to find a way to help a youth transition to her Middle School along with her elementary school classmates and friends. The hindrance was an after school daycare. Bill Jelkin, with Millard Public Schools, became involved and went out of his way to get the local daycare to provide an exception to having an adult sign the youth into daycare so that she could walk across the street from her Middle School to her after school program.

 

Papillion La Vista Schools
A youth and his half-brother were placed with his brother's biological father, who lived in Council Bluffs. The youth's parents both wished to have their son remain in Papillion La Vista School district. Paul Bohn, with Papillion La Vista Schools, collaborated with Nebraska Families Collaborative over a number of hours to assist in getting the right paperwork filled out so that the youth would be ‘optioned’ into 
Papillion La Vista and could continue at his regular elementary school.

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Omaha Public Schools: 
Nebraska Families Collaborative was working with a youth who had completed all necessary requirements to graduate early while living at Uta Halee. She wanted to be able to partake in graduation ceremonies with her Omaha South companions. Tyree Sejkora, with Omaha Public Schools, assisted in communications with district personnel to gain permission for her to walk with her graduating class!
 
Westside Community Schools: 
When Nebraska Families Collaborative (or any organization) has youth who cannot get to school at Westside for one reason or another, Sarah Fehringer (social worker with Westside) has taken it upon herself to transport the child to school for a temporary solution so their education is not disrupted!
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Gretna Public Schools: 
Deb Seimers with Gretna Public Schools worked with Nebraska Families Collaborative so that a youth in foster care, who has always been a “Gretna Dragon,” was able to maintain his enrollment at GPS even though he had moved out of the district.
      
Elkhorn Public Schools: 
Anne Doerr, Director of Student Services with Elkhorn Public Schools, assisted with providing transportation for a youth who has always been an Elkhorn student. This ensured he could get to/from his same school even though he moved out of the district and Elkhorn Public Schools was not required to provide transportation.
 


Ralston Public Schools:
 

Marilee Cloonan and Steve Snodgrass are the only two social workers for Ralston Public Schools. Between them they share all the Ralston school buildings. They are always up-to-date on information regarding Nebraska Families Collaborative youth and are willing to collaborate and share information as needed to make sure teams are pulled together to help make the best decisions for youth in their school district!

     

  

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100+ Women Who Care Omaha is a group of women who care deeply about the Omaha community. The group gathers every quarter for a one-hour meeting, and each member writes a $100 check to a charity that the group selects. This combined donation is making a real impact locally. Since 2014, they have donated $40,000 to local charities!

We are excited and honored to announce that 100+ Women Who Care Omaha have decided to partner with our Duffels 4 Dignity Drive, gifting us $5,000! Help us match this gift by making a donation now and doubling the drive's impact!

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A huge thank you to 100+ Women Who Care Omaha for making a big difference for Omaha, for Nebraska Families Collaborative, and for foster children!

Learn more at https://100womenomaha.com and show your support at https://www.facebook.com/100WomenWhoCareOmaha!

“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.” – Helen Keller

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We would like to share a story about a family who made it their mission to bring love and warmth to children entering foster care. Beverly Valasek and the Hein Family made special pillows last November and donated them to the Duffels 4 Dignity program at Nebraska Families Collaborative. The children who received the pillows absolutely loved them! So we reached out to Bev to see if her family would be open to donating more. They immediately jumped on board!

Bev and nine of her siblings originally made these pillows in memory of their mother. Bev talked to her employer, the Douglas County Housing Authority, who also donated books, coloring books, crayons, personal hygiene items, stuffed animals, and toys…anything a child might want or need.

They plan to continue making the pillows so that every child entering foster care gets a pillow this year.

A huge thanks goes out to the Hein family for their big hearts and for continuing to make the pillows so that every child will receive one! Special thanks to the Douglas County Housing Authority for going above and beyond to join Bev in donating!

Here is Bev’s story as she shared it with us:

heinfamilyI am a member of the Hein family. Our mother and father had sixteen children, ten girls and six boys. We have eight living sisters and every year the sisters get together in October to catch up and spend some quality time together. Last October we decided to do a community project in honor of our mother.

My sister, Jeanette, had made some pillows that had pockets in them. We thought they were very cute. I had seen the video “Removed” when I attended an NFC event. I was so touched by this video that gives us the opportunity to see--through a child’s eyes--what it feels like to be removed from your home and placed into foster care. Our family decided to make these pillows and donate them to children going into foster homes. We wanted each pillow to have a book and a flashlight. We wanted the flashlights because of the fear the children must feel, especially at night.

So all eight of my sisters and one brother went to Conrad, Iowa, for three days to spend time together and make pillows. Conrad is a small town that has a quilt store called Hen & Chicks. Above the store they have a wonderful place called The Nest where large groups can stay and work on projects like this. It was like being in a college dorm--so much fun! That weekend we made close to 100 pillows for the children. I took half of the pillows back to Nebraska and contacted someone I knew at NFC. She said she was sure they could use the pillows.

Several months later I was contacted by NFC. They asked how the pillows came about and was there a way to get more? I contacted my family and they brought more pillows that had been completed. My sister, Jeanette, sewed 65 and brought them from Tennessee. NFC had mentioned that they stuffed the pillows with coloring books, crayons, snacks, and all kinds of things. [They told us] the children were thrilled with the pillows.

I reached out to the staff and board members of Douglas County Housing Authority where I work to see if they would be willing to donate items, or money to purchase items, to put in the pillows. Many people went out and shopped for the children and many gave money. Julie, an employee at Douglas County Housing Authority, reached out to Hy-Vee on 108th and Fort Streets and to Wal-Mart on north 99th Street and they both donated. When we were done, we had collected so many wonderful things for children and teenagers [in foster care].

The generosity and love of all of the people involved in this project was incredible. Every one of us goes through difficult times in our lives and we can all remember when someone showed us a kindness or reached out to us when we needed it most. We found one small way to give back to deserving children and let them know that people think about them and care.

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In early June we celebrated the hard work and dedication of foster families with our annual Foster Parent Appreciation Luncheon. Each of our partner agencies recognized a Foster Parent of the Year and Kinship Caregiver of the Year, and we selected overall winners for the year chosen from hundreds of Foster and Kinship families in Douglas and Sarpy Counties. This year we were proud to recognize Danelle and Tracey McHenry as Foster Parents of the Year and Jessica Jenney as Kinship Caregiver of the Year.

We also had keynote speaker, Lisa Batenhorst, speak at the luncheon. As the VP of Nebraska/Iowa Family Services at Boys Town, she touched on what it means to be a foster parent, opening her inspirational speech with:

“I know I am surrounded today by talented, dedicated and truly amazing people, all of whom I am quite certain have a beautiful soul and lots of stories and hidden gray hair. There is never a perfect time to be a foster parent, and each of you took a leap of faith to do this even though there were likely many reasons to wait or not foster.  Everyone here has earned a medal of bravery, or impulsiveness!”

Lisa told how she was a foster parent herself, which led to adopting two children. She described how it was one of the most rewarding and most challenging experiences of her life, and shared some of the lessons she learned, summarized below.

  1. Do everything you can to partner with and get to know the biological family of your foster child.
    When you get your foster children, you can hear some terrible stories. Abusive and neglectful parents often love their kids and do the best they can, and a lot of them CAN do better if they get help and support. Come up with a plan to have purposeful communication and start on start a healthy relationship and communication with the family.

  2. Have Low Expectations.
    Explaining and discussing your family’s lifestyle and rules is important, but don’t expect any child to mold to what you expect in 3 days, 3 weeks, or 3 months. You don’t know what they’ve been through. Some things are easy to change, and some seem insurmountable. This doesn’t mean you don’t teach, encourage, support, and work to shape their behavior. Just be patient.

  3. You might want to take a chance and listen to your heart when you are looking at a placement and what works for your family.  Once you commit, you are committed.
    My daughter wanted a sister, and I thought I wanted girls as well, but we had girls twice before realizing that wasn’t best for our family. I also said I would never adopt, but we ended up adopting two older boys with behavior disorders and it was one of the best decisions our family.

Lisa ended her speech by thanking the foster parents in the room. “Making a difference by impacting the lives of people is what life is about. And each of you here do that. You joyfully and generously share your time, patience, talent and love to help others.”

A huge thank you to Lisa for her moving speech and to all of the foster families opening their homes and their hearts to children in need!

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Thank you to everyone who joined us yesterday for our May Community Partners Meeting. We had a packed house eager to hear Special Agent Sara Stanley and Dr. Kathryn Thomsen, both with the FBI, speak about how to identify and help stop human trafficking.

We know that foster youth are among the highest risk groups for human trafficking. This sad truth means that the work we do can have a big impact. Working together we can prevent foster youth from getting pulled into human trafficking, and supporting them so they can be safe, healthy and thriving.


 

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Rachel Pointer, Founder and Advocate of Free the People Movement and Case Manager for Omaha Home for Boys, shared her moving story as a child trapped in human trafficking for ten long years.

There are evil people in the world who do evil things, but the real evil is when no one does anything to help stop them," Rachel shared.

Her story is a true inspiration about how WE can make a difference.

Thank you, Rachel!


 Congratulations to all the award winners at our May Community Partners Meeting! Every quarter, Nebraska Families Collaborative honors our staff and community partners who have gone above and beyond in their work to support children and families. Each one is an integral part in the work we do.

 

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of the award winners.

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Certificate of Appreciation:
Julie Cornell (KETV)

 

Certificate of Appreciation:
Malisha Fisher, Trisha Clari, Betsy Miller, and Kim Thomas (Douglas County CASA)

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Traveling Trophy Runner-Ups:
Team Little (NFC)

Traveling Team Trophy Winners:
PSW's on Bowlby-Safranek, Adams
and Kelley Teams (NFC)

Champion For Families:
Kim Kalina (NFC)

 


 

Join us for our next

Community Partners Meeting

August 17, 2016 | 9:00-11:30 AM

DC Centre | 11830 Stonegate Drive | Omaha, NE

 

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It’s National Foster Care Month!

May is a special month, because it's National Foster Care Month! In Nebraska, there are nearly 3,000 children in foster care. If you are considering becoming a foster parent, know that you have a world of support behind you. Part of our mission’s work is to collaborate with partner agencies to support people who are interested in fostering. With 10 foster agencies in our service area there are many great opportunities to make a difference in the lives of children and families. We are here to connect you with those agencies and support you on your journey.

Partner Agencies

  • Lutheran Family Services
  • Christian Heritage
  • Nebraska Children’s Home Society
  • Child Saving Institute
  • KVC Nebraska
  • OMNI Behavioral Health
  • NOVA Treatment Community
  • APEX Foster Care
  • Boys Town
  • Children’s Square USA

Considering opening your home and heart to a child in need? Reach out for more information! The process begins by collecting information, going through the training, and deciding what works best for you and your unique situation. To learn more about the rewarding experience of becoming a foster parent, please contact us at (402) 492-2500. It could be one of the biggest and best decisions of your life.

Help Us Help Foster Families!

Help us celebrate National Foster Care Month by sharing this video with your friends. Who knows, you could inspire someone to become a foster parent and help a child in need of a loving home!

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clockLooking for another way to show your support? Omaha Gives culminates on May 25, 2016. Consider scheduling a donation of $10 now. Your gift helps fund important needs that allow us to support even more families.

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Are You a Potential Foster Parent?

Loving, patient and caring foster families play an essential role in ensuring the healthy development, safety and well-being of children and are critical in our goal of strengthening families and reuniting children with their birth families whenever possible.

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Are You Considering Foster Adoption?

Adopting a child is a uniquely beautiful and powerfully emotional journey. Loving, compassionate individuals discover space in their hearts for children in need of a forever family. Our resources will help you get started on the road to adopting a child.

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Help Support Our Mission, Donate Today!

Your donation to NFC will directly help children and families in the Omaha community. Consider making a donation and help support those in need. All donations make a difference – every little bit counts! And, there is more than one way to donate!

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